I feel that it’s time to broach the subject of the porn industry.
This is going to be very controversial, because it addresses a divisive
and sensitive issue amongst the feminist community and I know that many
will disagree with me. I want to make it clear beforehand that it is not
an endorsement of the practices of the traditional porn industry. I
simply want to address stereotypes and misconceptions about the nature
of porn itself – and its participants – and suggest alternatives to
censorship.
Today I had the misfortune of coming across two clips (
here and
here) from Channel 4’s
The Sex Education Show,
in which young people were interviewed about the kinds of porn that
they’d seen and their parents were invited to a special viewing of
online ‘hardcore porn videos’. We didn’t get to see these videos, but
moaning and screaming could be heard above the dramatic music which the
producers helpfully decided to add in. The parents’ reactions were
hilarious and a classic example of the moral panic which grips Daily
Mail Britain whenever sex is televised. They groaned, squealed, and
covered their faces. One parent started crying; another walked out.
Words like “sickening” and “disgusting” were thrown about. “What sort of
woman would do that?” muttered one mother. Another parent who could
have been lifted straight out of a right wing evangelical Christian sect
declared: “That is not just porn, that is bordering on evil”; such
videos were deemed to have “decayed the moral fibre of our society”.
Presenter Anna Richardson actually listened to these “brave” parents and
made no attempt to explain that there is a variety of sexual
preferences and fetishes and that enjoying something out of the ordinary
is not “sick” or “revolting”. It was also implied during her chat with
three teenage boys that “lesbian porn” is “shocking” – homophobia at its
worst and a huge mistake on the part of Channel 4. Comedy value aside,
the programme’s vehemently anti porn, pro censorship angle is worrying.
Historically, erotica and pornography have played a vital role in the
way in which people understand themselves. To quote an excellent
article by Jennifer Evans,
It Shouldn’t Be A Dirty Little Secret: A Feminist Makes A Case For Porn:
“If Michel Foucault is to be believed—the French
philosopher whose writing helped birth the history of sexuality as a
field—other cultures saw erotica as opening up much-needed discussion
about mutuality—one’s likes and dislikes in the bedroom—and desire.
Images provoked erotic play and negotiation, allowing, in an ideal
sense, for an ethical and complimentary exploration of sexual wants and
needs. Explicit images provided truths about our sexual selves.
Sometime in the 19th century this changed. Suddenly, explicit images
became evidence of the contagion within. Instead of promoting healthy
discussion and debate, pornography was evidence of a tortured soul,
painfully out of step with the newly important place of the middle-class
family and the masculinities and femininities that buttressed it.
Science and medicine—newly professionalized—schooled men ways to channel
and repress their desire as self-mastery became an emblem of
responsible manhood. Women were alternatively regarded as frigid,
uninterested, or over-sexed, requiring the discipline of marriage and
motherhood to overcome their extreme emotions.”
Much of this archaic stigma still lingers on today. It’s unsurprising
that the 2006 study into women who watch porn showed that many of them
feel guilty about enjoying sex without the love and romance and worry
that they’re ‘sluts’. They are inhibited by shame and repressive
societal expectations. Sasha Grey, one of porn’s leading feminist
figures who I will touch upon later, is right when she says that sex is
“the last taboo” and that the campaign to keep it behind closed doors is
“a very moralistic, Christian way of thinking”. Anti feminists tell
women to be ashamed of their appetites and urges; pornography encourages
them to embrace them. Pornography is an outlet for our natural desires
and kinks, especially for those without sexual partners. To break this
post up a little I’m going to do some myth busting and directly address
the 5 major arguments against porn.
1. “Pornography is sexist in its depictions of women.”
Much of the modern day criticism of porn stems from the increasing
popularity of violent and rough porn. Many of the more popular online
videos depict women being choked, slapped, called sluts and whores, deep
throated, spat on, and even urinated on. While there is a discussion to
be had about the ways in which patriarchy manifests itself in
pornography, what is often forgotten is that these are all fetishes
which men and women genuinely
enjoy. I’ve already addressed the stigma surrounding BDSM in
another post,
but I want to expand a little here. When critics point to rough sex in
porn as evidence of its misogyny, they are subconsciously marginalising
kink and, in turn, women in the kink community who are already made to
feel ashamed of their sexual preferences by the rest of society. The
problem with the argument that rough or kinky porn perpetuates imagery
of women as sexual victims is that it shows absolutely no awareness of
consensual kink and also ignores the abundance of rough and kinky gay
porn, or porn which depicts men being abused. It overlooks the fact that
these fantasies are enjoyed by men AND women. What the parents on The
Sex Education Show fail to understand is that something isn’t
automatically immoral just because you’re not into it. Grey feels that
we need to be more open and comfortable with our sexualities, because
“all sorts of people like all different things, and we just need to
accept that as a society”. She likes being choked, slapped and doubly
penetrated. And she isn’t afraid to assert that desire. In her
first-ever porn scene, she told her partner to punch her in the stomach
before his climax. Yes, she
told him to do it. There is no
problem with porn videos depicting rough sex, provided it is consensual,
and in most cases it is. Dr Charlie Glickman has written
a very good piece about sex positivity in which he argues:
“The very notion that a sex act can be good or bad in and
of itself is simply the current iteration of sex-negativity because it
locates the value of sex in the activity rather than in the experiences
of the individuals who do it.That’s like saying that sandwiches are good
or bad without reference to the personal tastes of the people who eat
them. It’s much more productive to ask how a given individual feels
about what they do and make room for a diversity of responses, instead
of judging the acts themselves.”
And, as Greta Christina eloquently observes in
Porn, Social Criticism, and the Marginalization of Kink, critiques
of sexism in porn often miss the point and end up as kink-shaming. What
needs to be emphasised is consent, and porn videos alone don’t always
get that across. This is where sex education needs to step in.
2. “Pornography leads to violence against women.”
Feminists like Andrea Dworkin have linked pornography to sexual
attacks and violence against women, but the evidence is debatable.
Several studies, such as the one prepared by feminist
Thelma McCormick
in 1983 for the Metropolitan Toronto Task Force on
Violence Against Women, have found no correlation between porn and sex
crimes. The Task Force responded by suppressing the study and
reassigning the project to a pro-censorship male, who returned the
“correct” results. His study was published. Modern-day critics of
pornography such as
Gail Dines
argue that men learn about sex from watching porn, citing a study from
2010 in which 80% of men said that the one sex act they would most like
to perform is to ejaculate on a woman’s face. Aside from the fact that
Dines et al are straying into kink-shaming territory, they are ignoring
the fact that fetishes are instinctive, not learned from porn. Porn
simply provides an outlet for those fetishes. The fact that porn is the
main way in which millions of young men learn about sex highlights a
failure in our
sex education system to provide students with comprehensive information to equip them for later life. Porn
can work alongside proper sex education to create healthy outcomes.
3. “Porn can never be feminist.”
What exactly is feminist pornography? The annual Feminist Porn Awards in Toronto has three guiding criteria:
- A woman is involved in the production, writing, direction etc of the work
- It depicts genuine female pleasure
- It expands the boundaries of sexual representation on film and challenges stereotypes that are often found in mainstream porn
The emergence of pornography produced by feminist women such as
Tristan Taormino,
who lets actors choose their own partners; showcases women’s pleasure;
and guarantees an equitable and safe work environment on set and on
screen, is a significant step towards the transformation of the
industry. It is also increasingly popular, which is hardly surprising
given that young women today are more comfortable to discuss their
sexual fantasies and there is a greater demand from them for visual
stimulation.
One of the reasons why porn is considered anti feminist is because it
‘objectifies’ women. But are critics missing the point? Avedon Carol,
spokesperson for
Feminists Against Censorship, sums it up when she says:
“There is no reason to think that porn can’t be
‘woman-friendly’…The thing about porn is that it’s about what turns you
on, not what your intellectual ideals are – sexual desire isn’t really
very intellectual. So the question of ‘woman-friendliness’ may be rather
corruptive to the discourse, if what you are looking for is an
intellectual ideal rather than just material women enjoy using to get
hot”.
Women are as much their bodies as they are their minds or souls. It
isn’t degrading to focus on their sexuality. It’s also worth considering
that in feminist porn both partners operate as equals. Anna Span makes
porn from a ‘female perspective’ by shooting in a different way to
traditional porn directors, thus avoiding the ‘male gaze’ trend, and by
selecting good looking and experienced men that women WANT to watch. For
those who want to learn more about feminist porn, I’d recommend
this excellent 2003 documentary,
which “takes a rare and empowering look into the pornography industry
and feminist community to see how they intertwine within the politics
and poetics of female sexuality. It shows women who are committed to
making and supporting pornography that includes their feminist values
and will go up against an entire industry, stereotypes, and sexism to
get what they want”. In the words of
Ellen Willis, who famously coined the term ‘pro sex feminism’:
“As we saw it, the claim that ‘pornography is violence
against women’ was code for the neo-Victorian idea that men want sex and
women endure it.”
4. “Female porn actors are victims of false consciousness.”
A common argument wheeled out by anti porn campaigners is that women
who pose for or act out porn are so traumatised by patriarchy that they
cannot give real consent. In
No porn is good porn?, Abby O’Reilly notes that
“pornography continues to be perceived as the last refuge
of the male sexual pervert and ill-informed cock-slut who, in her
pretensions to empowerment, is ironically consolidating archetypal male
oppression at the same time as flashing her muff at anyone holding a
camera”.
I am in full agreement that the porn industry currently has its fair
share of problems, and one of them is that the women involved are often
addicted to drugs, economically trapped, and sometimes pressured into
doing things that they aren’t happy with. This needs addressing urgently
and it requires a radical shake up of our society, not censorship of
porn (which I will address later). But what of those women who are happy
and healthy and who still choose to do porn? A common characteristic of
the porn actors who have been interviewed about their work is a love of
exhibitionism. They enjoy being naked and having sex on camera. To stop
them from doing that is a denial of their right to choose anything
outside the narrow range of choices offered by political/sexual
correctness.
Some pornographic actresses such as
Nina Hartley (who is active in the sex workers’ rights movement),
Ovidie, and
Madison Young are
self-described sex-positive feminists who argue that much of what they
do on camera is an expression of their sexuality. My personal favourite –
who I mentioned at the beginning of this article – is
Sasha Grey, an intelligent and eloquent philosophy graduate with a clear mission statement:
“Most of the XXX I see is boring, and does not arouse me
physically or visually. I am determined and ready to be a commodity that
fulfills everyone’s fantasies…I don’t need to see genitalia up close; I
don’t need to see a dirty yellow couch against a white wall. I want to
see something different, like this is not exciting to me…If you look at
me and you think ‘Here’s a woman who’s intelligent, cognizant and making
her own choices’, and you still tell me that what I’m doing is wrong,
screw you, because that should end the debate.”
5. “Porn should be censored.”
Aside from being a violation of freedom, censorship of porn as
advocated by many anti pornography feminists has serious flaws. In its
mission statement,
Feminists For Free Expression
argues that censorship has never reduced violence, but has historically
been used to silence women and stifle efforts for social change. They
point to the birth control literature of
Margaret Sanger, the feminist plays of
Holly Hughes, and works like
Our Bodies, Ourselves and
The Well of Loneliness as
examples of feminist sexual speech which has been the target of
censorship. And one of the problems with censorship is that it simply
drives the industry underground, offering “a cosmetic, dangerous ‘quick
fix’”. As
Anna Span
came to realise, censorship is counterproductive; it does not eradicate
the tendency to eroticise the female body, but simply forces these
thoughts underground.
I am tired of others trying to control my sexuality by telling me
what I should or shouldn’t like based on what someone else thinks is
best for me. As it happens I share Grey’s opinion that most porn is
boring, but I will always defend a person’s right to take part in or
watch it. Enough of paternalism. We have rights over how we enjoy our
sexuality and we don’t want to be labelled as sick or twisted. Porn
isn’t for everyone. Some people just don’t get turned on by looking at
others having sex. That’s fine.
Critiquing sexism in porn isn’t bad in itself. But most critiques
either generalise all porn as bad or class the sex acts themselves as
bad, which ignores the fact that it is possible to make porn which is
ethical and consensual and which values the satisfaction and emotional
well-being of all participants. Yes, there is a lot of abuse within the
porn industry. But there is a way to combat that without criminalising
porn, which in itself is not inherently sexist. Policing sexuality is
the wrong way to combat patriarchy; it only leads to repression, shame,
and greater opportunities for exploitation. And until we accept that
it’s okay to be turned on by watching other people have sex, be it
straight or gay or rough or sensual or just plain filthy, we will never
truly be liberated.